Sunday, February 13, 2011

no solace for cheating spouse

I read the story in one of the paper about the story about a man and a women who were cheating their spouses. Both of them are married and they had been doing this for the last 4 years. Then the cheating husband cheated on his girl. The girl, who was cheating her husband, turned to a lesbian for conform.

How would you respond emotionally to this?.

This is what he wrote in a paper, seeking advise:..

Part 1
N and I are married to but not to each other, we had different spouses, they do not about the affair. N and I have almost everything.. love, purpose, passion and most of all a wonderful sex life.

Comment 1.
You are most of the most coward that I have ever seen. The institution of marriage had been the best test institution for family stability. You do check on any civilize society, and the basis of the strength come from a strong stable family.

If your truly love her, you want her to and the children that she bear, to be able to face the world. Now you are living like a convicts, in constant fear of being caught. The children have no chance to be yours.

Part 2
When she went abroad to see her husband, I had a fling with another women. When N knew it, hell broke loss. Then she reconnect with her old classmate, who were a lesbian. Now her classmate live with her.
Comment 2
This fit in well. A cheater is alway remain a cheater. You cheated your wife and then you girl friend. I think you had found the best suited partner, a girl who cheated on her husband. It is only appropriate, the two of similar kind forming a union of immoral grouping.

The only way forward is to start it fresh, not with another cheating wife of other man, but with your own wife. There are always the good point of a person. Return to the right path,in whatever religious group you belong to. As for your girl friend that went for another girl, she is the most ungratefull lady.  She said her husband is a good man, may be she should realize then, that she is not worth to be his wife. She is scoop too low in life.

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