Crazy Crane Operator Caught His Cheating Wife.

This is like a scene from a movie..

How would a crane operator react when he caught his wife with her boyfriend in the hideout house. Watch is for fun, but remember that your spouse can turn into the monster if you cheat him.





The unfortunate truth, the cases of cheating spouse is on the rise. We do not want to go into the academic discussion, why this is happening. There two group of reasons, internally within the person, and externally with the surrounding environment.

I think basic morality is going doing. Just look the trend of babies born out of wedlock, look at the statistics of divorce due to unfaithful spouses. This is a worrying trend, as the basis of the structure of the society is being eroded.

Reading the papers, the story of priests being caught and finrd for sexual abuses.

The Lost Husband by Serenity

It is not too often that I am touched by what I read about the household stories in the paper. However, the story of the lost husband by serenity did that.

All the blame seem to point to the husband, for finding pleasure outside the bedroom of his home. But it could had been worst, at least he had provided the physical comfort for the family.

I am attaching the story below , as I cannot write as nice as the writer...

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The lost husband

By SERENITY

SHE was a waitress, he a GM. She was 21 years his junior.

I did not find out about the affair. He confessed. Why? I guessed he did not want to feel guilty for cheating. But he did not care about hurting me. He said he would not leave this family but if I could not accept the affair, I could leave. I accepted it because alone, I would not be able to provide for the children.

I asked him what was wrong in our marriage. He said I was a good wife but he could get so much pleasure from a young girl and he could not live without her. To keep her for himself, he asked her to stop work and maintained her fully with a car and apartment. I still had to work for this family. He bought me a car too, only because he now had no time for me and the children.

I was devastated. I stabbed myself. He said, “You want to die. Why don’t you stab deeper? Now, you can’t die.” He laughed and left me bleeding.

He changed completed. He never used to scold me but then started using foul words even if I just mentioned her name. He used to be home every night for dinner with the family, but after that, we would have dinner only on birthdays or once in two or three months.

He no longer comes come home every night, and when he does, it is late at night. On Sundays, he rushes off after breakfast to do the marketing for her and their son.

I have kept this secret from my friends and family but his family (especially his mother) welcomed her with open arms. Birds of a feather flock together is all I can say of him and his family.

He continues to come home, out of guilt. He continues to provide for us, out of a sense of responsibility. But when he is home, it is just an empty shell. You can see from his face, his heart is not with us. She calls him and he calls her. It hurt in the beginning, but it does not matter anymore. I have lived like this for 15 years and my heart has stopped bleeding. I went through hell in the past.

I lost my husband but I gained insight into life. I learned to forgive. I try to be amicable whenever he comes home. I want peace in my life now. I can erase the pain, I can stop the tears, but the scars from the stabbing remain. Forgiving is one thing, forgetting is another.

Now as I reflect, I count my blessings. I still have a roof over my head. I have an old junk that can still ferry me around. I have a part-time job to subsidise my EPF savings for my living. I am in good health. I still have him in times of need, but my most blessed consolation is my children. Now that they are grown, they understand and love me very much for all that I have gone through. And I thank them. 

source:
the star newspaper page SM19 27march 2011

promise to marry

It is difficult to imagine how a lady can be cheated the amount of RM300,000 by a man who she had not seen yet, and gained your trust by a promise to marry. Their interaction was only via the chat line.

This is one of the story, a sad story though and it reveals the power of the heart over the mind. She was so convinced by the man she met on the internet, who promised to marry her. There was non so blind that the heart cannot sense, clouded by the affection.

A local paper revealed that a consultant was cheated to the amount of RM 300,000 over the online fling that she had.The woman, who only wished to be identified as Azlina, 49, said she began visiting chat sites for companionship and was contacted by a man who introduced himself as Hassan Williams, 50, a Muslim American in October last year.

“He captured my heart. He knows what Malay women look for in a man and knew Malay customs very well,” Azlina said yesterday, adding that the online romance continued for a month before he asked her and promise to marry her.

“I believed he was sincere and was excited when he asked me to move to Atlanta, Georgia.

Life savings lost: Azlina speaking to Chong and Khairun Aseh about her experience with Hassan. After she had run out of money, Hassan’s friend called to tell her that he had recently died.

“However, Hassan then told me his business had run into some trouble and he needed some money,” she said.

She then took out her life savings, and in 25 transactions over three months transferred the money to several bank accounts apparently located in the Caribbean and Cayman Islands.

When she ran out of money, Azlina said Hassan stopped contacting her.

On March 17, a person claiming to be his friend called to tell her he had died recently and asked her to stop calling his number.

“At this point, I had already found out that Hassan was not who he claimed to be, but I still wanted to talk to him.

“And the person who called had an unmistakable African accent,” she said.

Because of his understanding of Malay customs, Azlina became convinced that the conman lived in Malaysia.

She then contacted MCA Public Services and Complaints Department head Datuk Michael Chong to warn other women.

“When women my age can’t find a husband, some of us can get desperate,” she said at a press conference.

Chong said he had received reports of nine similar cases last year with loses amounting to over RM2mil.

“This year itself, I have already received three cases where the victims lost a total of RM305,000,” said Chong.

Also at the conference was Umno Youth complaints community bur-eau chairman Datuk Mohd Khairun Aseh who said he would bring the matter to the party’s attention

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It is believed that for each single case reported, there were 10 more cases gone unrecorded. Not many will be brave enough to announce to the world..." Look at me, I am stupid". The tactic of making promise to marry has a better statistic to success.

Happiness being together

Researches have shown that people who were unrealistically idealistic about their partners when they they got married are more likely to be happier with their marriage. This was the finding published by the Psychological Research, a journal of the association for psychological science in USA.

The finding is against the traditional wisdom.The wisdom seem to argue that, if you are putting to high an expectation, it will be more likely that you will become frustrated when the expectation is not met. If you idealize a person, you will be bound to be upset when the later truth reveal that the person is not perfect.

The study was conducted based on the sample taken in Buffalo, New York.222 couples agreed to subscribe to the research.The participants agreed to fill up a survey every 6 month.

At the beginning of their marriage, the couples were asked to rank their expectations. These expectations were grouped and ranked into various categories of expectations, such as: less idealistic and unrealistically idealistic.

The people with unrealistic idealistic showed to be happier 3 years later.

The Spy Games

Spying gadgets are more widely available now. It is getting smaller and more difficult to spot. It can come in many forms, from a telephone recorder, spy camera, hidden microphone of even the gps locator.

These are tools of trades, the danger starts when they are used for unethical or criminal purposes.

It was reported in the local daily, a syndicate is actively working to lure unsuspecting victims for sex and film the actions using a small spy camera. The victims were blackmailed, and if they refuse to pay, their action video will be uploaded to internet and circulated.

In the sampled case, a retiree (man) of above 60 years old met a charming lady of about 40 at his club. Since the man's wife is a busy politician, he took the opportunity to be close to her. The relationship ended to a hotel where they had an intimate relationship.

A week later, the man received a phone call demanding compensation on rm100,000. When he refused,  he received a reminder in his email and a copy of a video showing his acts in the hotel.

Most man will pay the ransom rather than face the wrath of the family.

The syndicate are well connected. It seem to know who to target. They will only go for the rich few, those who can effort to pay.

photo from thestar newspaper